Tongue Twister or Thought Twister - English version
Tongue Twister or Thought Twister…..
(The best way out of
a difficulty is through it)
I was playing with my 4 years old son yesterday. Playing various
games with him is one of my favorite activities of daily routine, specially the
language games. My son speaks and understands three languages, Gujarati, Hindi
and English and he loves exploration of new languages. We were playing ‘tongue
twister’, which is known for improving pronunciation.
Betty bought butter but butter
was bitter so,
Betty bought better butter
to make bitter butter better butter!
We enjoyed
speaking the tongue twister with various methods and laughed a lot. It was
great fun. After playing this game for some time, my son asked me about the
meaning of the sentence. I tried to explain the meaning to him that one girl
named Betty bought butter but because the butter was bitter, she bought another
butter to add in the bitter one so that the butter will become better or we can
say sweeter. After listening to the answer, my son was satisfied and got
engaged in another activity. However, after some time he came back and asked, ‘but mama, if the butter was
bitter, Betty could have either thrown it or add sugar in it, why did she add
another fresh/better butter in it. What if the fresh butter will become bitter
too? The entire butter will be
wasted then?’ I
did not have any immediate answer to his question. I replied to him gently,
‘you are right in a way, my son but there must be some reason behind Betty’s
decision. Is it alright if I give you answer after a while?’ His agreement gave
me some relaxation.
First of
all, I was so amazed on my son’s question. He not only thought about the
question but also tried to find solution as per his understanding. Child
Psychologists believe that children till the age of five, cannot differentiate
much between real world and imaginary world as adults do. Perhaps this is the
reason, children
can accept complex situation better than we adults. If the
entire discussion can be seen with broader perspective, this tongue twister
teaches us a lot.
Today, most
of the people specially youth are very busy. Thousands and lakhs of people like
me are running for something. Some towards their aspirations, some for their
children, some for their needs and few might be running just because others are
running, but everybody is running. I am also one of the participants of this
marathon. We have everything except time. We do not have time to learn from our
Past or to learn from the incidences happening around us. Hence, sometimes we do
not pause to examine the bitter incidences around us or even in our lives
rather we waste a lot of our time in preparing sweeter butter from bitter
butter. The reason behind this is we limit our perspective in ‘busy life’ that
we don’t think to throw the bitter one and start with the new one. A very well
known physiologist, Mr. M. Scott Peck has written in his book, ‘The Road Less
Traveled’ that the problems are never that huge as we make them. One requires a
sense to look at them and understand them. Many a times we do not understand
the problem and also we avoid the pain we might need to face while addressing
the issue because confronting and solving problems is a painful process. He
also said,
“Our view to reality is like a map with which to negotiate the
terrain of life. If the map is true and accurate, we will generally know where
we are, and if we have decided where we want to go, we will generally know how
to get there. If the map is false and inaccurate, we generally will be lost.”
How true it is, isn’t it? But are we born with these maps? Not
really, we have to prepare these maps and it needs to be constantly changed
with time and need. But unfortunately, the young generation today has stopped
preparing their own maps and that is why they are lost in their own circle. We
have forgotten that there are multiple ways of making bitter butter better. And
sometimes mindlessly adding more butter may result in all the butter being
wasted.
I think I am also lost while writing, experiencing a bombardment
of thoughts from all sides. But fortunately till I have completed this blog, my
son has forgotten his question. Again I am relaxed as I really do not have an
answer to his question.
Was this tongue twister or thought twister? Very COMPLEX !
Anyways you also try to play with this tongue twister tonight ….
Betty bought butter but butter
was bitter so,
Betty bought better butter
to make bitter butter better butter!
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